Well, I had always heard people talking and discussing about the changes that occur when one gets married but never gave it a thought and ignored all of it thinking that it isn't for me. Little did I realize that it would be of not much but some use at a later stage of life. Well that later stage is right at my doorstep.
I am a single girl ( for just another month) who has recently got engaged and is going through her courtship period and I must say that it is the best time of my life so far. Knowing the fact that there is someone waiting for u , caring for u, loving u is a great feeling.
Time these days is flying with lots of phone calls to attend (I know , i know what u r thinking!!!) and lots of discussions to do. Basically as I am starting a new life in a new city , its altogether a different experience and with my fiance and I being in different cities and 2,217.7 kms apart ( ahem ahem, u tend to find such data wen away from ur love !!!), we have to discuss many things on phone calls. Thanks to Graham Bell whose invention led to further invention of mobile phones.
Finding a new house, searching for maids, setting up the kitchen and many such chores are in the to do list of my loving fiance. I must say that he is doing a wonderful job all alone so that when I go there I have all things available.
It might sound boring to single people but trust me all these small things brings a lot of joy between the two of us. I know, right now it is joyous to me, as he is the one who is taking all the pain and I am simply here to tell him my ideas, but I am sure after I go there the roles will be reversed.
The days are also full of shopping and roaming around the markets to buy and bargain for things that are beyond mentioning here( the list is too long to even talk about!!). Shopping is a girl's best time pass and we actually do spend major chunk of our salaries on buying stuff that we might already be having in our lost or forgotten cupboard area!!! But lately, its been too much and no longer catches my interest. I have mentioned it to my fiance that I do not want to shop for another year maybe on which he gave me a sarcastic laugh . Actually he is rite , this is not possible!!! A year is too much for a girl to live without shopping.
From the lehenga to the latkans on the dupatta, from the nail paint to the hair pin, from the trips to the tailors and beauty salons, from new parents to new relatives, from "paeri pauna" to "love u" and from "Shaireen" to "shona" the journey is beautiful with love all around.
