While growing up and moving from childhood
to teenage, life goes through lot of changes. From choices to likes and dislikes,
everything changes. Barbie dolls are replaced by nail enamel shades, kitchen
sets are replaced by slam books and discussion on games are changed to
discussion on boys.
Yes I said boys and yes girls
discuss a lot about boys!!! (A much known fact). So all the girls would agree
that from the time they enter in teenage to the time they get married, they
come across different categories of boys.
Categories would basically be:
1) Really attractive guys who u
think are "out of your league"
2) The average guy who u
"sort of" like but still don’t LIKE ( U know what I mean!!!)
3) The guy who runs behind you
like a dog with his tongue hanging out but u think "you are out of his
league"
4) The one for whom u r just a
friend or probably the shoulder to cry on when his girlfriend dumps him
5) The nerds and the geeks who r
"Not Eligible" ( I know I am sounding rude but dat's how it is!!)
6) The extra arrogant guy who
carries lot of attitude with them and u just pray that u never get to be with
one such kind
7) And "The one" who u
think would be perfect for u but he never even looks at you or for that matter
any girl (Not because he has different preferences but because his life is
already full of fun and he doesn't need
a relationship to make it complicated)
Phewwwww.. I can add more to the
list but I think it covers majority.
So, many of us would have been approached
by boys belonging to either category, with their different "desires" (Yes
I actually used Desires!!!) to be with a girl. Girls would turn down or rather
reject the proposal for some or the other reason. But sometimes it is really
difficult for a girl to turn down a proposal and also explain him the reason
for doing so. For instance, when a good friend (mind it just good friend)
approaches u and expresses that he feels for u, all a girl gets in her mind is
that she doesn’t feel for him as he does, at least not for now and who knows
what's going to happen in future.
Another would be when a guy whose
is just another "gunda" of the town, start irritating you with his
gestures. What would people call a "gunda's" girlfriend? No No, a
strict no again. Now comes the turn of the arrogant guy, he is the one who will
never approach a girl coz he thinks he has the "charm" and
"charisma" that would attract any girl to him. So he will not show u
good gestures, instead would start "showing" you that he is ignoring you
.But we girls are smart enough to understand this and thus show a bigger
attitude to the arrogant male.
That brings us down to serious
thinking now, as the guy who stands top in the category list will never
approach us, and the left one is the one we think is perfect for us.
But at the end it all comes down
to the question "who is the one I love?" This question is very
difficult when the choices are a bit too much (I am just being flattery dats
all!!)
I might be in love with the nerd
as he is smart, intelligent and thus would give me the required space as he has
to devote his time to the hard earned intelligence also. I might also be in
love with the attractive, handsome guy as he has that charisma which attracts
me and thus I will be happy. But what about the good friend who has just got
his heart broken by a bitch and thus has realized how good I am with him. He
will treasure me and would treat as the only queen of his heart. So, if I try I
might just like him otherwise too. So when a girl has so many choices with her,
how can she decide who to go with and who does she actually love?
P.S. Well girls, just listen to
ur heart as its says all!! It’s Ok if u like the nerd.. Just dont bother about
what ur friends will think. And yes you may add on the list of categories
above. Suggestions are welcome .
