I might be in love with you..

While growing up and moving from childhood to teenage, life goes through lot of changes. From choices to likes and dislikes, everything changes. Barbie dolls are replaced by nail enamel shades, kitchen sets are replaced by slam books and discussion on games are changed to discussion on boys.

Yes I said boys and yes girls discuss a lot about boys!!! (A much known fact). So all the girls would agree that from the time they enter in teenage to the time they get married, they come across different categories of boys.

Categories would basically be:

1) Really attractive guys who u think are "out of your league"

2) The average guy who u "sort of" like but still don’t LIKE ( U know what I mean!!!)

3) The guy who runs behind you like a dog with his tongue hanging out but u think "you are out of his league"

4) The one for whom u r just a friend or probably the shoulder to cry on when his girlfriend dumps him

5) The nerds and the geeks who r "Not Eligible" ( I know I am sounding rude but dat's how it is!!)

6) The extra arrogant guy who carries lot of attitude with them and u just pray that u never get to be with one such kind

7) And "The one" who u think would be perfect for u but he never even looks at you or for that matter any girl (Not because he has different preferences but because his life is already full of fun and he  doesn't need a  relationship to make it complicated)

Phewwwww.. I can add more to the list but I think it covers majority.

So, many of us would have been approached by boys belonging to either category, with their different "desires" (Yes I actually used Desires!!!) to be with a girl. Girls would turn down or rather reject the proposal for some or the other reason. But sometimes it is really difficult for a girl to turn down a proposal and also explain him the reason for doing so. For instance, when a good friend (mind it just good friend) approaches u and expresses that he feels for u, all a girl gets in her mind is that she doesn’t feel for him as he does, at least not for now and who knows what's going to happen in future.

Another would be when a guy whose is just another "gunda" of the town, start irritating you with his gestures. What would people call a "gunda's" girlfriend? No No, a strict no again. Now comes the turn of the arrogant guy, he is the one who will never approach a girl coz he thinks he has the "charm" and "charisma" that would attract any girl to him. So he will not show u good gestures, instead would start "showing" you that he is ignoring you .But we girls are smart enough to understand this and thus show a bigger attitude to the arrogant male.

That brings us down to serious thinking now, as the guy who stands top in the category list will never approach us, and the left one is the one we think is perfect for us.

But at the end it all comes down to the question "who is the one I love?" This question is very difficult when the choices are a bit too much (I am just being flattery dats all!!)

I might be in love with the nerd as he is smart, intelligent and thus would give me the required space as he has to devote his time to the hard earned intelligence also. I might also be in love with the attractive, handsome guy as he has that charisma which attracts me and thus I will be happy. But what about the good friend who has just got his heart broken by a bitch and thus has realized how good I am with him. He will treasure me and would treat as the only queen of his heart. So, if I try I might just like him otherwise too. So when a girl has so many choices with her, how can she decide who to go with and who does she actually love?

P.S. Well girls, just listen to ur heart as its says all!! It’s Ok if u like the nerd.. Just dont bother about what ur friends will think. And yes you may add on the list of categories above. Suggestions are welcome .