Boy In Cafeteria

"Oh , he is so cute" ,  "I wish i could be with  him"  .Most of us would have said these or similar statements quite often. And also would have been encouraged by "friends" around us to do something about the feeling. But how many of us would actually "do" something about it?I mean , I Know the world has changed specially the youth, but i am still the girl who would just sit and dream about a crush of mine and end up doing nothing about it. 
Well I am a girl in her 20's who spends her time while working ten (sometimes even more) bloody hours in a posh office space winning a handsome salary and ending up spending it by the end of every month. It can be easily assumed that I am a big shopaholic and insanely spend half of my salary in maintaining a wardrobe that is exquisite or may be I am such a big alcoholic that I am sloshed to death every other day. 
But a big disappointment to myself, I am none. All right , I agree that I do spend some part of my salary in shopping (Surely  making my wardrobe good enuff but not exquisite) and I do have fancy mock-tails sometimes but I am still not entitled to be called an insane shopaholic or a sloshed alcoholic. 
Anyways,Coming back to discussing about what to "do" when u see someone so gorgeous around u?(Fine, Gorgeous may be a lil overboard) And when u suddenly feel he may be the one for u. When u become conscious of ur looks, ur attire,the way u r eating or even the way u have shaped ur nails or haven't shaped them at all. My friends think that as I am a single girl(soon will be a woman), I should find someone for me ASAP!!! And sometimes I even end up agreeing to them. Well its not that i feel lonely or am not happy but its just occurs to my mind when my eyes are stuck on someone. Not exactly stuck but yes kind of stuck(Its hard to term it !!)These days gals are too strong, as in they do things rather than wait. But this is not applicable to all spheres of life. I am an independent girl who has been living on her own for years now , but does that mean I am not shy!!Indeed I am (though sometimes!!) , but there are moments when the girl inside me speaks rather than "me".  
OK,its simple, a girl likes a boy who is completely a stranger to her. She doesn't even know his name, but is attracted towards him. She sees him everyday in the cafeteria having lunch, but could never gather the confidence to even smile at him. She searches him in the cafeteria whenever she gets to go there. She talks about him to her friends,gets all excited if he also looks at her and their eyes meet(happened just once!!) Her friends think they will make a cute couple,and she smiles all day on this thought.But that is all, nothing more..She is still a  stranger to him and will be if she doesn't gather the courage to speak or "do" something about it.
Her friends always tell her that she should go ahead and talk to him but can anyone explain or tell "what to talk about?" I mean how often do u talk to strangers? Specially when u r attracted to him.Finally the independent,strong girl sits down and tries to "do" something. She takes help from an acclaimed resource "Facebook" .She tries doing some random search  but the acclaimed resource did not prove to be much of help. So now the bottom line is what to do next?  Should she consider it as just another crush and forget it with time or she should be happy that she finally had a topic to write an article on?